Update on Ms Y²

I've tried to ask her out *cough*date*cough* a few times now, I've been back to Kuching twice since she came. Disregarding the first time where we met at The Spring and the second time when I gave her some Porkies snack at her uni faculty, I have yet to go out and have a meal with her. It's pretty disappointing as I am not always in Kuching all the time, also I am really eager to meet her although I won't know what to do when we do meet, I went back to Kuching for her being the main reason for just a shot at being able to meet her. Well, it's like she is dodging me, throwing me excuses time and time again, which I get it. As polite or nice or reasonable she tries to make it sound, it is pretty obvious that she doesn't wanna go out with me, yet. Also, chatting with her isn't going smooth as well, yeah one could reason that she is busy bla bla bla, but that's really not the case. Her replies and getting shorter and slower, and she hasn't replied me until now although she saw the message, and I assure you it's a "replyable" message/topic.

Yeah, I'm feeling very down and devastated now, but I know how I shouldn't let her be the center of my focus. I should do my things, continue with my life. She is not obliged to reply any of my messages, I should just be glad to be able to chat with her and not expect anything. I know she doesn't like me, nor is she testing me, it's pretty obvious, but I am not gonna give up, not on this girl. Because she is worth it, and also because I really really like her.

Anyways, I have a friend who kept on throwing this question at me,  how are you so sure you like/love her? What do you like/love about her? Do you even know her? And I've found my answer.