Saturday, October 19, 2013

Rejection and Lesson Learnt



I think the picture pretty much explains everything. It all started Thursday night where she got angry at me for like no reason at all. I couldn't sleep well that night, went to bed at 1am and woke up at 6:45am. I think that was the beginning of the end. Then in the afternoon, after I pass the things to Super, I receive this message. I think it's very unfair to me. Getting rejected even before I get to confess.

I had been betrayed, I don't think it was Tang, but rather I suspect it was Super whom I trusted and thought would help me. I guess this is the lesson learnt. Girls are different from guys. When girls ask guys to help them chase their guy friend, the guys wouldn't hesitate to help. But when guys ask girls to help them chase their girl friend, they tell their girl friend everything and feel like its troublesome and annoying. So bottom line is, never seek out girl's friends to help you chase her.

Yeah, I admit I made a mistake. I'm not perfect, I'm still learning and I will be the first to admit and try to change them. She is actually a really nice girl, and I even failed this one. There is really a problem with me. Maybe I will be single just like my big bro Wayne. Guess it's time to take a break. We are still friends though. I've also bought a nice little watch for her, and I plan to put it on the wrist of that doll that Lester's girlfriend Sue has too and give it to her during her birthday. Just ask Super their room address and drop it in front of their door. But that's like January 21st. We'll see how is it by then, I've already applied my annual leave for that date though. But really, we'll see how it is by then, whether I still like her, whether... there are many factors to take into consideration, so we'll see.

That's it for now, I think I apologised a lot today, and to different people. But here I wanna apologise to my bro Poh Chun for being in such a messed when he asked me out for lunch today. Appreciate!

2 comments:

Mysterious God Of Light said...

Well, it's hard to say this but I've being there and I think it's time for you to let go bits-by-bits. You can still contact her once in a while, but please don't put your expectation too much as you may overlooked someone else.

I've being putting too much expectation on girls I like that I'm too desperate in many things. If I didn't take a glance on the others, there won't be a girl that suited me well by my side right now.

I didn't expect this to happen either & I keep on thinking on the girl I'm so interested on by that time.

I do take risks and see multiple options, & I know that can be called as flirty or playboy-like. But at least I'm just keep in contact & make them feel relax & happy a little.

Mysterious God Of Light said...

But please do hear me out and I know it's hard. Perhaps, just perhaps, she isn't the one that God planned for you, or maybe you time isn't right. Just be yourself and take it casually without rushing things out. By this you may get higher chances with ONE of the girls you like.

Make it as a Not-A-Must-Have relationship, then you can get into relationships better.

May this experience be the better and luckier you next time.

God Speed & God Bless =)