Friday, February 22, 2008

What is love?

After Valentine's Day, I have been intrigued to post something about love. It took me quite some time because I had to do a little research. However, up until now I am still not done. So, I decided to divide it into 2 sections.

Part 1, What is Love?

So, exactly, what is love? From years of watching tv, I've heard about:
1. Love is an over-whelming feeling.
2. Love is blind.
3. Love conquers all.
4. Love makes your heart pound fast.
5. Love makes your blood boil.
6. Love makes you have butterflies in your stomach.
7. Love gives you strength.
8. Love makes you do stupid, irrational, crazy things.
9. Love makes you do things that you never thought you would do.
10. Love makes you do things that you would never do.
11. Love makes you do things that you would never dared do.
12. Love makes you want to see that person all the time.
13. Love makes you want to talk to that person all the time.
14. Love makes you want to hold that person all the time.
15. Love makes you want to be with that person all the time.
16. Love cannot be controlled, contained, stopped.
17. Love at first sight?
18. Love after sometime without realizing it?

I made a survey from a group of people whom I promised they remain anonymous. Let's see what they have to say. 24 people were asked of their opinion via test message by the way.
1. I reply wtf(what the f**k)
2. Love is sumting(something) natural that come(comes) 4om(from) (the) heart that make(makes) u(you) fel(feel) happy.. make(Makes) u(you) wan(want) 2(to) care n(and) know wat(what) happen 2(to) tat(that) person.. general(General) term la(?). he hee
3. Luv(Love) is nothing..nothing(Nothing) is luv(love)
4. Lve(Love) is when we fel(feel) happy about being 2gether(together), i(I) tink(think).
5, Love is about a person likes a thing or someone very much "I think". Btw(By the way) y(why) (are) u(you) doin(doing) this?
6. 2 person like each other gua(?) ... I oso(also) dont(don't) know ,,, Hehe...
1 person refused to comment. 17 people didn't reply.

If you have your own opinion about [What is Love], feel free to express in "comment". In fact, I encourage you to, put anonymous as your name if you don't wish to reveal yourself. Thanks!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Your make, I'm breaked

Sometimes, we pay for the mistakes others make. For example, your cat broke your mother's favorite vase and you're the one ended being scolded or your partner-in-crime shot dead the shop owner you two were robbing and you're the one being sentenced to life prison.

Well, in my case, I had to pay for the mistake my mother made.

15/2/08 morning, I was already late for work. After getting ready, which took me 15 minutes or so, I went to grab the car keys and run. But guess what, the car keys were not at the usual place! After looking in the house for 2-3 minutes, I decided to give my mother a call. This is what she said, in mandarin : " Ei? This morning I vacuumed your car, why don't you use the spare keys? Why don't you go look for them (the original ones) at the sofa? Just look anywhere, here and there. How should I know?"

From what she said, you can know that my mother is:
1. Needlessly looking out or me.
2. Looking for 'other' ways to right her wrongs.
3 Careless, reckless and forgetful.
In conclusion, She is very troublesome. He has to work and still she vacuumed my car which is not dirty at all, very 'honorable'. She likes to throw things around (never out them back or anywhere where you can easily find them) and forgot where she threw them. She also likes to order me to look for them. Gosh!

This is how I pay for my mother's mistake, but the story wasn't over. I still had to look for the car keys and it is no where to be found. Later, after around 20 minutes, my mother came home. So she went to get the spare keys, which I knew wouldn't work, and tried it. Walaa, it didn't work! So she ask me to open it up and she left. Again, leaving me to suffer from her forgetfulness. So I opened it up and guess what, I don't know much, my mother just asked me to change the batteries. The pictures explain better. Have you ever seen batteries like this? I know I don't.




So, from the beginning until the end, starting from the moment I reach to grab the car keys until I went to work using my mother's car with her friends form work, the duration was 1 hour.

The good thing about this incident was it was a 'chance' for me to NOT get angry and yell at my mother. That's a good thing for me. The bad thing was, well, you know, everything. Remember, every situation is a 'chance' for you to prove you have changed. For example, you were a hot head, you wanted to change and you got a chance when a waiter spilled water on you but you didn't scold him instead deep down in your heart you forgave him. Get what I mean?

Friday, February 15, 2008

14 Feb 2008

People call this day Valentine's Day. Some call them Singles Awareness Day aka S.A.D. I just prefer to call it 14 Feb? No offence, I'm single, available but not looking.

So what is it again?

If I was not mistaken, Valentine's Day is dedicated to love ones. Which definitely does not narrow up to couples only but just about everyone and anyone you love. For example, family.

Speaking about love, to me, love to not just the feelings you have for an opposite gender. Love is also the relationship among family members, the tie between relatives and the fun among friends.

Funny quotes from hitz.fm
The good things about being single

1. A: I could marry myself in a civil service.
B: Dude, you marry yourself!
A: I know, I'm so happy.

2. A: I could watch Star Track for 3 days and nobody will say anything.
B: Let's go watch Star Track.
C: Okay, let's go.

3. A: I could do anything I like. I can dress in a too-too, not be at home, in fact I can be in your home.
B: You can actually do better things with absolute freedom.
A: But I can't think of any.

4. A: I can play congkat until 12am and nobody will say I'm crazy.
B: Dude, you're crazy!



*These are from hitz.fm, I don't own or write them.
And I don't copy word by word because my memory is not that good.